The rise of the Internet has allowed us to gain access to countless numbers of websites, videos, music, games…etc. The introduction of newly developed websites (and apps) has really enabled us to dive into a world way out of our control, which is both entirely exciting and terrifying. All of our parents have mostly likely told us to use the Internet responsibly and to not engage in any conversation with people we don’t know, and most importantly to never ever ever give out personal information. Yet, why are so many people mostly teenagers and young adults actively engaging in online friendships?
In a nutshell, an online friend is a friend you exclusively know through the Internet, most of the time the friendship begins with a bond over something (or someone) and takes off from there. Just like an offline friendship, people engaged in an online friendship will get to know each other, share interests, hobbies, likes….etc. Some might even decide to share personal information while others decide not to, which is entirely fine both ways, as long as there is a mutual level of understanding and respect amongst both parties.
On a personal level I believe that online friendships are just as valid and relevant as “real friendships” or friendships that involve face-to-face communication. Many people who have friends that they’ve met online share a personal bond with them that they’ve often found lacking in offline friendships. The often stereotyped yet reasonable fear of being catfished or falling prey to an online predator eventually gets obliterated when the other party is as eager to share personal information, is willing to facetime or video-chat and doesn’t show any signs that might indicate danger or sketchiness. Although that does not mean that you should not take the proper precautions when engaging with someone online.
I also believe that their is a hidden beauty in online friendships, especially those that develop and grow to become friendships where you would get to see the person often or even get to call each other best friends. Also, with online friendships it’s a lot easier to find someone who shares your interests and is willing to try out new things with you like watching a new tv show together or reading the same book. This will only work to make your bond stronger and possibly even work towards coming up with a way to meet each other someday.
So the deal is, online friendships are wonderful and allow us to meet and get to know people from all walks of life. They also (somehow) allow us to put our best communication skills to work and use them for our own benefit. Yet, always remember that some people may not be as truthful and honest as they claim to be, so always make sure that someone you trust is aware of your active online presence and always trust your instincts, especially when it comes to people.
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